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cutting psychopaths some slack

Sunday, July 4th, 2010

What do you get when you cross someone who is impulsive, thrill-seeking, deceitful, and completely without a sense of right and wrong? A psychopath, of course.

And despite the high rate of recidivism of psychopaths, perhaps they should be cut some slack. After all, they can’t help their neurological make-up. In a sense, it’s really not their fault, or at least that’s the argument that lawyers will be making.

A psychopath is someone who has no capacity to empathize. Note that the term psychopath does not suggest that someone is crazy. In the movies, “psychos” are invariably portrayed as killers. That reputation does have a basis in reality, but it is certainly not always the case. In “Snakes and Suits” (a book co-authored by Dr. Hare, the inventor of the psychopathy checklist), the authors describe psychopaths who attain high positions in corporate America, taking credit for the work of others and spreading enough confusion and misinformation to keep their opponents in check and their bosses happy with their “work.”

Psychopathic individuals already have a good chance at getting out of trouble. They can lie remorselessly and convincingly, persuading even the skeptical recipient that he or she is wrong and the psychopath is correct. Psychopaths are expert human predators — societal parasites who will use our weaknesses against us, sometimes for no obvious reason.

Throughout history people with psychopathic tendencies have gleaned power for themselves at the expense of many. I certainly can’t prove that Hitler, Stalin, and Saddam were psychopaths (per the checklist), but it seems highly probable that they were.

Psychopaths in America aren’t quite as powerful as the aforementioned psychopathic candidates, if only because our system is more effective at incarcerating them. A disproportionate share of the prison population scores high on the psycopathy checklist. Rather than attaining power, they go to prison.

Some people with psychopathic tendencies, such as James Arthur Ray*, attain wealth from his gullible followers before being exposed. But, as is typical of psychopaths, not everyone is convinced that they’ve been duped, even after the predator is exposed. On one of James Ray’s “vision quests,” three people died and multiple people were injured due in no small part to negligence on Ray’s part. Unsurprisingly, Ray fled the state (Arizona) following the incident and, to my knowledge, never took responsibility for his actions. I suspect he will face no serious repercussions for his criminal negligence, in large part because he will likely have no trouble persuading a jury of his “innocence.”

Having read about the chilling, disturbing, cold world of psychopaths, it’s tempting to believe that psychopathy itself should be criminalized. Maybe that’s a bit draconian. But in regards to this talk of cutting psychopaths some slack, I say that it’s a dreadful idea. A psychopath would de-fraud you of your wealth or kill your family and not feel bad about it for an instant. Feeling sorry for these predators is a travesty for the line of victims left in their wake.

 

* Note – at no point have I claimed that James A Ray is a psychopath. I cannot prove that and will not make such a claim. I merely point out that, based on media reports, he has psychopathic tendencies.

people base their success relative to others

Sunday, May 30th, 2010

I’m sure most people know this already, but our happiness is in part based on our professional success (among many other factors), and that success is determined relative to the success of others. More interesting is that who we compare ourselves to is significant. If we compare our position/compensation to our work peers (with whom we have limited emotional attachment), we might feel that our lower salary is “unfair.” However, importantly, if we compare ourselves to our good friends from college, then we’re likely to feel saddened if we are under-performing them.

I’m not convinced feeling bad is always bad. Maybe we should feel bad sometimes. Maybe feeling bad will propel us to a more interesting (and possibly higher paying) position? Or feeling bad might cause us to do something truly great, like pursue a simple solution for problems that lead to significant human suffering (and most innovative solutions are simple and relatively cheap – mosquito nets and seat belts, for eg).